Nuances: Our Asian Stories
Nuances is an award-nominated audio space where guests from a wide range of Asian ethnic groups, careers, countries, and communities explore our often complicated relationships with our culture(s) and how they shape us. It can be a source of validation, a space for healing, a call to self-reflection, or a good laugh, often all at the same time. The current 5th season is a limited series exploring wholesome queer stories from premodern Asia, what they can teach us about our cultures, and why they were forgotten in modern times. It features scholars and guest co-hosts from the queer Asian community. We talk about the careers we’ve pursued: winemaker, writer, actor, musician, politician, activist, brain scientist, care worker, doctor, & so many more. Our intersectional conversations explore how our experiences affect our views on anti-racism, disability justice, feminism, LGBTQIA+ rights, religion, etc., and how we can create change in our own circles to build solidarity across moveme...
Nuances is an award-nominated audio space where guests from a wide range of Asian ethnic groups, careers, countries, and communities explore our often complicated relationships with our culture(s) and how they shape us. It can be a source of validation, a space for healing, a call to self-reflection, or a good laugh, often all at the same time. The current 5th season is a limited series exploring wholesome queer stories from premodern Asia, what they can teach us about our cultures, and why they were forgotten in modern times. It features scholars and guest co-hosts from the queer Asian community. We talk about the careers we’ve pursued: winemaker, writer, actor, musician, politician, activist, brain scientist, care worker, doctor, & so many more. Our intersectional conversations explore how our experiences affect our views on anti-racism, disability justice, feminism, LGBTQIA+ rights, religion, etc., and how we can create change in our own circles to build solidarity across moveme...
Episodes

Feb 15, 2026
Feb 15, 2026
27 min
See full show notes for transcript: https://nuancespod.com/2026/02/15/lunar-new-year-episode/@nuancespod on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, Facebook.
Feb 15, 2026
27 min

Feb 1, 2026
Feb 1, 2026
1 hr 1 min
To participate in our Lunar New Year episode, see instructions on nuancespod.com (final deadline Feb 8)
Today's episode is a re-run of my nuanced conversation with Dr. Manijeh Moradian, an Iranian American feminist and professor at Barnard College. The episode originally aired in 2023.
You can view the original full show notes here.https://nuancespod.com/2023/07/02/s3-e03-dr-manijeh-moradian-on-why-iran-isnt-always-considered-part-of-asia-and-how-the-west-may-be-misinterpreting-what-iranians-truly-want-out-of-the-current-feminist-revolution/
Feb 1, 2026
1 hr 1 min

Nov 10, 2024
Nov 10, 2024
1 hr 18 min
Season finale!!!! See full show notes for references & additional info.
Queering Premodern Asia is a limited series and the 5th season of the Nuances podcast about Our Asian Stories. Each episode explores different aspects of sexual diversity in premodern Asia with commentary from guest scholars. Episodes are divided into a narrative portion, and a discussion with a guest co-host from the queer Asian community.
Ep. 9: In search of the “socially acceptable”
Introduction
Military makeup and good looks
Women in trade & female agency
Gender fluidity as a plus
Love, marriage and their casual (and recent) relationship
Why it all changed
Icons and rebels
Why premodern Asia?
Why me?
Discussion with co-host Ryan Ah Seek
Credits
Spotify playlist
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Guest co-host bio
Ridwan (Ryan) Ah Seek, known as Ryan, is LGBTQIA+ activist in Mauritius. He is the former President and current vice president of Collectif Arc-En-Ciel, the biggest LGBTQIA+ NGO in Mauritius. He challenged Section 250 of the Mauritian Penal Code in 2019 and won the case on 4th Oct 2023, against the State of Mauritius.Instagram | TikTok | Facebook
Nov 10, 2024
1 hr 18 min

Oct 27, 2024
Oct 27, 2024
1 hr 23 min
See full show notes for references & additional info.
Queering Premodern Asia is a limited series and the 5th season of the Nuances podcast about Our Asian Stories. Each episode explores different aspects of sexual diversity in premodern Asia with commentary from guest scholars. Episodes are divided into a narrative portion, and a discussion with a guest co-host from the queer Asian community.
Ep. 8: For the Record
Introduction & content warnings
We were here
Other sources than official records
Power in numbers
Who’s missing?
Official vs unofficial stance on queerness
Court documents
Decolonizing history
Porn, erotic art
Conclusion
Discussion with co-host Dr. Izat El Amoor
Outro
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Guest bio
Izat El Amoor is an assistant professor of sociology, public scholar, and a queer Palestinian (citizen of Israel). He studies queer issues in Palestine with a focus on education, family life, and the Palestinian Queer Movement. He also studies queer life in the SWANA Region with a focus on political and cultural factors of mobilizing for towards queer change since the Arab uprisings erupted in 2011.
Oct 27, 2024
1 hr 23 min

Oct 13, 2024
7. Performing Gender (and Gender Benders)
Oct 13, 2024
Oct 13, 2024
1 hr 15 min
Queering Premodern Asia is a limited series and the 5th season of the Nuances podcast about Our Asian Stories. Each episode explores different aspects of sexual diversity in premodern Asia with commentary from guest scholars. Episodes are divided into a narrative portion, and a discussion with a guest co-host from the queer Asian community.
Content warnings
Introduction
Performing gender in Indonesia, Philippines, Japan
Cross-dressing in theater in Korea, China, India, Japan
Gender bender icons from China, Vietnam, Korea
Gender boundaries in premodern China, Japan and Iran
Conclusion
Discussion with co-host Stella Gold
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Host: Lazou
GUEST BIO
Stella Gold is a queer and nonbinary Rebirth + Wealth Coach for changemakers and comes from a lineage of activists. They are the founder of My Gold Standard, a believer in wealth activism, pro liberation from all oppressive systems, and collective care. They believe in using business as an ecosystem for financial solidarity for yourself AND the collective. Their ancestors are filipinx, romanian jewish, scottish, irish, chinese, italian, iranian, french, german, british, and likely so much more. They hold values and beliefs in abolitionism, anarchism, decolonization, collective and ancestral liberation, and leftism. Instagram | LinkedIn | Web
Oct 13, 2024
1 hr 15 min

Sep 22, 2024
6. The West: Savior or Demonizer? - Part 2
Sep 22, 2024
Sep 22, 2024
1 hr 4 min
Queering Premodern Asia is a limited series of Nuances: Our Asian Stories. Each episode explores different aspects of sexual diversity in premodern Asia with commentary from guest scholars. Episodes are divided into a narrative portion, and a discussion with a guest co-host from the queer Asian community.
Introduction & content warnings
China & the missionaries
China, Britain, and the Opium Wars
Japan, gun boat diplomacy, and rapid modernization
Thailand, Iran, Turkey
Regulating prostitution
Conclusion
Discussion with co-host Cece
Acknowledgments
Guest co-host: Cece is a Canadian born Chinese transgender trans model, advocate, poet, and public speaker who is using her voice to lift up the marginalized, fill in the gaps, and instigate journeys of discovery
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CONTACT
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Sep 22, 2024
1 hr 4 min

Sep 8, 2024
6. The West: Savior or Demonizer? - Part 1
Sep 8, 2024
Sep 8, 2024
1 hr 18 min
Nuances podcast about Our Asian Stories. Each episode explores different aspects of sexual diversity in premodern Asia with commentary from guest scholars. Episodes are divided into a narrative portion, and a discussion with a guest co-host from the queer Asian community.
Introduction & content warnings
Why is this series focusing on premodern Asia?
The West isn't the only imperial power
From the Silk Road to the Age of Exploration
British colonization of India, Section 377 & vagrancy Laws
Premodern Chinese law about sexual crimes (w. Prof. CunCun Wu)
Portuguese vs British India (w. Prof. Anjali Arondekar)
Spanish colonization of the Philippines
French colonization of Vietnam/Cambodia/Laos
Discussion with co-host Stella
Acknowledgments
Guest co-host: Stella is a writer, editor, and co-host for the Brazn Azn podcast along with the lovely Virginia Duan.
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CONTACT
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Sep 8, 2024
1 hr 18 min

Jul 28, 2024
5. Gods, Sex, and the Patriarchy
Jul 28, 2024
Jul 28, 2024
1 hr 18 min
If you enjoy this show and would like to help me spread the word about it, or support it financially, you can find out more at nuancespod.com/support.
View the full show notes.
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GUEST BIO
Shreya Sharma, pronouns she and her, is a podcast marketer by day who finds herself immersed in questions about intersectional identity by night. Thankfully for her, she is a writer too. She occasionally publishes her love affairs with sounds and audio on the Shreya's Audio Affairs newsletter on Substack..
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CONTACT
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Host: Lazou
Support this podcast: nuancespod.com/support
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Jul 28, 2024
1 hr 18 min

Jul 14, 2024
Jul 14, 2024
1 hr 16 min
Queering Premodern Asia is a limited series and 5th season of the podcast Nuances: Our Asian Stories. Each episode explores different aspects of sexual diversity in premodern Asia with commentary from guest scholars. Episodes are divided into a narrative portion, and a discussion with a guest co-host from the queer Asian community.
4. LOVE, MARRIAGE & THEIR CASUAL RELATIONSHIP
Introduction & content warnings
Marrying for love
China
China - Male-Male marriages in Fujian
China - Marrying ghosts
Iran - the many forms of love
How the definition of love and marriage evolved in Korea and Japan
Vietnamese village customs
Female agency in South East Asia (Indonesia, Cambodia, Thailand, Malaysia, Myanmar, Philippines
The only people without marriage
When did love and marriage tie the knot?
Discussion with Dr. Badie
What monogamous people can learn from polyamorous folks
Outro
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GUEST BIO
Dr. Manijeh Badiee (she/her/hers) is an Iranian, queer, bisexual, polyamorous, neurospicy, cisgender femme professor, psychologist, and CEO of Poly Therapist Psychology Corporation..
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CONTACT
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Host: Lazou
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Jul 14, 2024
1 hr 16 min

Jun 30, 2024
Jun 30, 2024
1 hr 22 min
See the FULL SHOW NOTES for references, links & more.
Queering Premodern Asia is a limited series and the 5th season of the Nuances podcast about Our Asian Stories. Each episode explores different aspects of sexual diversity in premodern Asia with commentary from guest scholars. Episodes are divided into a narrative portion, and a discussion with a guest co-host from the queer Asian community.
Introduction & content warnings
Third Gender as spiritual leaders/ people with special powersAsog Babaylans (Philippines)
Manangbali (Malaysian Borneo)
Hijras (South Asia)
Bissu (South Sulawesi, Indonesia)
Bayasa (Central Sulawesi, Indonesia)
RatoNale/Seaworm Priest (West Sumba, Indonesia)
Balian and Basir (Kalimantan, Indonesia)
Sexuality as fluidChigo (Japan)
Beyond the Western modelGay & Lesbian non-equivalence
Baklâ (Philippines)
Heterosexuals and Lesbians in Thailand vs. the West
Kathoey (Thailand, Laos, Cambodia)
Gender ambiguity in premodern Muslim societies
5 genders of the Bugis culture (Indonesia)
Intersex
Outro
Discussion with TONIE
Featured Song: More Than My Body by TONIE
Guest scholars:
Sachi Schmidt-Hori, professor of Japanese literature & culture at Dartmouth College.
Wu CunCun, professor of Chinese literature at the University of Hong Kong.
Guest co-host
TONIE is doing their very best to make you cry, in all the best ways. The LA-native writes and produces each synth-pop track from the comfort of their skylit home studio in Brooklyn, NY — a perfect backdrop for the emotional vulnerability that colors their lyrics. Proudly Vietnamese American, nonbinary, and themselves!
TONIE can be reached on Instagram & TikTok and their website Itstonie.com
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Jun 30, 2024
1 hr 22 min

NUANCES: OUR ASIAN STORIES – SEASON 5 (Premiers Jun 2, 2024)
Queering Premodern Asia
The upcoming 5th season will be a limited narrative series exploring “queer” history in premodern Asia, where sexual diversity was much more prevalent than is commonly known today.
Featuring queer Asian co-hosts and scholars, these episodes will have you questioning everything you thought you knew about queerness, love, and premodern life in Asia:
Prince Charming & His King
But Where Are the Lesbians?
50 shades of Gender
Love, Marriage & Their Casual Relationship
Gods, Sex & The Patriarchy
The West: Savior or Demonizer?
Gender: A performance
For the record...
In Search of the Socially Acceptable









